Easing the Stress of Planning for Thailand: Where to Go, What to Do

Travel to anywhere foreign (read international territory), especially to a first-time traveler to that particular destination, may seem both exciting and intimidating (being a see-saw of emotions between the two). Thailand and the continent of Asia, in particular, seems to evoke a number of emotions on the later end -- questions, concerns, anxiety, and a feeling of extreme stress (moreso than that which accompanies other vacation-planning). Why this is remains evasive, but it may possibly be due to the fact that 1.) Thailand is, for the majority of travelers, foreign, 2.) many (not all) still views Thailand as a 3rd-world country (and therefore fear that it has political issues that will affect citizens, and fear in sanitation, etc.), though it is quickly advancing, and 3.) the Thai culture may seem a world away for some, which is a very intimidating concept. The stress that results from such concepts may very well be enough to shadow the excitement of such a trip and may nearly provoke a would-be traveler to Thailand to just delete all plans to go, which would be a major mistake, as you will see, for a trip to Thailand can be pain-free and as breezy as an evening stroll along Hua Hin's beach!

Amongst the top concerns for travelers to Thailand, as it applies to travels to any other location, is where to go in order to make the most of the trip (i.e. getting in all the culture, seeing the most renowned sights, getting the true feel and the best experience of the location). This won't be an issue much longer:

Central Thailand

Bangkok: Sukhumvit Area (think modern Thailand: mega-shopping centers galore, 5 story malls housing high-end fashion such as Chanel, Armani, Gucci, Prada, Louis Vuitton, etc.; the commercial core/ economic staple of Thailand)

Silom Area (financial district by day, but party/night club core by night; infamous Patpong district is located here)

Rattanakosin Area ("old" Bangkok, where the history rich nation's culture is on glimmering and majestic display, from the multiple wats to Chinatown and the gorgeous, not-to-be-missed Chao Phraya River where festivities are held on New Year's, the King's birthday, and Buddhist holidays)

- The Grand Palace - As the name suggests, this palace is one of the finest in Thailand, consisting of 1.5 square kilometers and Wat Pra Kaeo, along with the Royal Chapel, a mini museum, Royal Collection of Weapons, and a Coin Pavillion, plus so much more! This palace is not to be skipped, since the exterior itself is breath-taking and worthy of more than a few snapshots...think gold facades and intricate Thai architectural designs.

- National Museum - For all you history buffs out there, this museum houses several collections on art and archaeological and cultural objects. This is a personal preference call, as some travelers may prefer seeing historic structures and nature rather than such collections. Out of the museums in Bangkok (three major ones), I would recommend this one.

- Wat Arun - There are 12 Buddhist temples (Thailand is predominantly Buddhist) in Bangkok, all of them equally majestic, beautiful, and tranquil, but some are (during the best times of the day when it's not yet too hot) plaqued with tourists, making the entire experience just stressful. One such temple is Wat Pra Kaeo, which houses the Emerald Buddha; as beautiful as it is, it's also a major tourist destination, guaranteeing it to be crowded (if you really want to see it, try it in the evenings). Wat Arun (Temple of the Dawn) is quieter and less frequented by most tourists, and is right on the bank of the Chao Phraya River. It's a landmark of Bangkok, often thought of as a Royal Temple. Even if you're not Buddhist, the Thai temples are definitely a worthy destination not to be missed; a wonderful opportunity to gain insight into the culture.

- Jim Thompson's Silk House - Thailand is highly known for silk, and Jim Thompson (a collector/manufacturer of silk during his stay in Thailand) houses a beautiful collection in his architecturally stunning house, which also doubles as a museum for art and architecture. Great for every age!

- Floating Market - Both beautiful and chaotic, the strip of water is nestled between wooden houses on stilts and is glided upon by long wooden boats with all sorts of ware for sale (handicrafts, delicious snacks, flowers, fruits) from morning til evening.

- Rama IX Park - Bangkok has 3 main parks, one of which Rama IX Park which is culturally rich (the other two are more western, and lean towards Central Park moreso than a Thai park). It features botanical gardens, a lake, gorgeous flowers, a restaurant, refreshment booths, and a building displaying the life and works of King Rama IX.

- Siam Niramit (show) - This is one of the top shows in Bangkok and is perfect for the entire family. Featured at the Rachada theatre, this evening show consists of over 150 talented performers, 500 lavish and stunning costumes, spectacular scenary, and advanced special effects. It shows Thailand's bygone royal days in a riveting fashion. The grounds also have a traditional Thai village (a replica that provides an authentic atmosphere of bygone days).

- Shopping Centers - Bangkok has 15 major shopping centers, such as MBK, Siam Paragon, Central World Plaza, Gaysorn Plaza, Pantip Plaza, IT Mall, Siam Discovery Center, Amarin Plaza, and Siam Square, not to mention the others. These centers are multiple stories, often featuring their own theatres, gardens, and restaurants on their floors. Some even have full-size aquariums, in addition to their boutiques. Weekend markets such as Jatachuk are worthy of a browse as well, although you'll probably find it difficult not to purchase at least one item from their variety of exotic goods (hand-made crafts, silver, garlands, etc.).

- Patpong Night Bazaar - Not for the conservatives, this area is well-known for its risque displays and shows (think all that you've heard about Thailand, right?), but it also is a shopping mecca when the sun sets. The night bazaar features a myriad of stalls selling everything; browsing is a treat in and of itself. The Patpong area also houses bars, pubs, discotheques, go-go dancing and 18+ shows (probably not the area for young children).

- Royal City Avenue - The night-time area for the young crowd, this avenue is an entertainment mecca, featuring restaurants, bars, pubs, and clubs catering to the 18-25 scene. You won't be disappointed.

Pattaya: 91 miles SE of Bangkok, this destination is a favorite for those seeking beautiful beaches, superb sea food, resorts and spas, water sports, night entertainment (Bangkok's nightlife has nothing on this!), and guest houses.

- Pattaya Beach - Think shimmering turquoise waters reflecting the just-perfect sun and golden sand lined with resorts. Perfect for swimming, relaxing and water sports such as jetskis and banana boats (favorite beach past-times for local Thais)!

- Mini Siam & Mini Europe Display - A cute miniature village display near Pattaya City. Both Thai and European heritage is on display in a scaled down version of several landmarks. It features over 100 models in an area of 29 rai surrounded by natural scenary (swaying trees and fragrant flowers); models of important objects and historical sites of different culture and civilizations of various periods from ancient times til the present. A cute and informative display that's perfect for all ages.

- Nong Nooch Tropical Garden - This is 500 acres of beautiful landscape, complete with a renowned orchid nursery, botanical gardens, and cultural/traditional performances consisting of an elephant show (live!). Suan (garden) Nong Nooch is a recreation park that's constructed like an authentic Thai village as located in the northern provinces.

- Pattaya Elephant Village - Can't get enough of those gentle creatures from just the Nong Nooch Gardens? No problem. Go straight to the elephants' home in Pattaya! See elephants being trained (harmlessly), worked, fed, and bathed, as well as elephant riding, which you can participate in as well!

- Nighttime Pattaya - A certain charm drapes itself over Pattaya at night, despite the nature of some of the attractions. At night, Pattaya has all to offer: bars, go-go shows, cabarets, clubs, shops, restaurants.

- Million Years Stone Park and Crocodile Farm - 15 minutes away from Pattaya, this 70 acre piece of land houses petrified trees over a million years old. Bonsais and rare trees and flowers are also applenty. Trees too stiff for you? How about the thousands of saltwater and freshwater crocodiles living in a shady and natural environment throughout the land? Worth a sight? You bet.

Koh Samui: Thailand's third largest island, this island is 308 miles south of Bangkok, and remains a popular holiday resort for those seeking picture-perfect turquoise waters and golden sand unspoiled by the many 5-star resorts hidden in the lush emerald environment.

- Chaweng Beach - The most attractive beach on the island, Chaweng feature velvety white sands and crystal-clear water. It consists of hotels, resorts, and bungalows to fit all budgets (affordable to luxury), ensuring that anyone may share in the beach's splendor. It has the highest density and widest selection of bars, restaurants, and clubs on the island of Koh Samui.

- The Big Buddha - Koh Samui's biggest attraction to both Thais and foreignors, this 15-meter tall golden Buddha sits atop a short flight of steps. It was built in 1972 and remains a monumental landmark on the island.

- Elephant Trekking - See more elephants up close; feed them, pet them, and ride them.

Hua Hin: A beach town founded by royalty and frequented by Thailand's elite classes, now it's also frequented by tourists. It is the sight of luxury hotels, beautiful water attractions, and yearly festivals such as the Songkran Festival, Loy Kratong, Hua Hin Jazz Festival, Hua Hin & Cha'am Golf Festival, and the Hua Hin Kings Cup Elephant Polo Tournament.

- Khao Takiab - A 272 meter tall hill that rests south of Hua Hin, but is visible from Hua Hin beach. A photographer's favorite, this scenic spot is quiet, cool, and breezy, and has a temple on top. Quiet and friendly restaurants surround it and from atop it, Singhtoh Island may be seen (it resembles a lion in shape).

- Phra Nakhon Khiri Park - A 92 meters high hill with a peak composed of royal halls, palaces, wats, and buildings constructed in a neoclassical Western and Chinese style. Perfect for watching the evening sunset. It's an absolutely breath-taking sight that will have you nostalgic.

- Khao Luang Cave - This cave is the largest and most important cave in the Phetchaburi province. It houses the ornamented Buddha image created by King Rama V and dedicated to King Rama III and IV. Several monastery statues are located within the cave, making it a majestic scene for anyone.

- Phraram Ratchaniwet Palace - This medium-sized palace is a key historic sight that can't be missed by visitors. It consists of a beautiful domed ceiling and ivory and sapphire architecture.

Kanchanaburi: With 19,486 square kilometers, this is Thailand's 3rd largest province and is situated 80 miles west of Bangkok. It is mountainous and its western border is alongside Myanmar.

- Bo Ploy Sapphire Mine - This 20-year old mine is active in one part where people continue to excavate and mine for blue and black sapphires. The other portion of it, however, has been converted to a lake, club house, and golf course.

- Sai Yok Yai Waterfall - Located 90 kilometers from Kanchanaburi City, this waterfall is medium in height and is best viewed via one of the several boats up for rental.

- Erawan Waterfall - This gorgeous waterfall is a main attraction for this province and draws numerous visitors year-round.

- Sangklaburi - The district adjacent to Myanmar, this town consists of rivers, mountains, and a lake part of the Khao Laem resevoir.

Northern Thailand

Chiang Mai: Thailand's second largest city, Chiang Mai is modern and friendly, set against a gorgeous backdrop of mountains, hills, and over 300 temples that add to its historical aura.

- Chiang Mai City Arts & Cultural Centre - The building is a post-colonial Thai architectural masterpiece, housing interactive exhibits, music, art, and historical displays that span 15 rooms.

- Chiang Mai Night Safari - Okay, so when you think Thailand, a zoo doesn't exactly come to mind. This safari is a completely different experience that is as Thai as sticky rice and mangos. The true essence comes from the night. View the animals in a night environment.

- Sbun-Nga Textile Museum - Though it is only 3 years old, this museum houses 20 years' worth of northern Thai textiles, accessories, and furniture.

- Wat Phuak Hong - Like other Thai temples, this is beautiful, but also posseses an aura that's slightly different from the others; unique and must be seen first-hand.

Chiang Rai: An elaborate province consisting of 11,678 square kilometers and 1.23 million inhabitants, situated 829 kilometers north of Bangkok. It borders on Myanmar and Laos, and the average elevation is 580 meters above sea level. Those who visit Chiang Rai can testify to the exorbant beauty of crisp air, mountain scenary, and hilltribes. It also is the Golden Triangle -- the area where the borders of Thailand, Laos, and Myanmar converges.

- Ku Phra Chao Meng Rai - To go here is to visit a temple and take in luxurious scenary all at once for this stupa is located within Wat Ngam Muang on the hill. It contains King Mengrai's ashes and other relics. A destination that won't fail to awe and inspire.

- Haad Chiang Rai - This is the location to head to if you really want an authentic feel for Chiang Rai. This is a scenic riverside area and promenade frequented by the locals of this province.

- Mae Kok River - Take a 3-4 hour long-tail boat ride down this pleasantly scenic 130 kilometer long route that passes hilltribes and elephant camps. It exudes the essence of northern Thailand.

- Doi Mae Salong - Just the place to head to if you would like to enjoy a day in the midst of riveting coffee plantations, fragrant fruit orchards, and Thai cherry trees. With restaurants and accomodations aplenty, you'll find it difficult to leave. Opportunities for horse-back riding and trekking are also available.

- Tham Pum Tham Pla - Caves unlike any other, guaranteed. These reed and fish caverns (as derived by the name) possess spectacular interiors with stunning multi-colored rocks. The perfect location for a mid-afternoon meditation.

- Wat Phra That Pha-Ngao - Even if you don't visit this temple for the temple itself (if you stay in Thailand for just a few days, you're bound to have visited at least 2 temples already), the unparalleled view that it offers of the Mekong River and Laos is worth the journey.

- Khun Korn Forest Park Waterfall - 30 kilometers south of Chiang Rai's provincial capital, this waterfall is the highest in the province -- and well worth the drive.

Maehongson: Towering mountains and densely forested slopes characterize this hidden village near the Burmese border that's home to famous Northern Thai hilltribes such as the Karen, Lisu, Mhong, Lahu, and Lua. Their differing rituals and cultures are up for view and memory-capturing photos.

- Jong Kham Lake - Previously (in ancient times) a natural source of water in the center of town, this lake is now surrounded by magnificant gilded and green temples with spires and intricate designs, creating a beautiful park and tranquil atmosphere to spend a leisurely afternoon.

- Thumpla (Fish Cave) - 17 kilometers from Maehongson, this cave is situated at the base of the mountains. The cave's mouth consists of a clear pool containing several large fishes, created from the natural springs beneath the mountains. Trees and plants surround it, creating a cool and relaxing atmosphere for all visiters.

- Pha Sua Waterfall - Flowing from the Mae Sa-nga River in Burma, this waterfall is quite a sight with its 6 levels and unique rock formations. You won't need to worry about timing your visit to see this sight in the perfect atmosphere -- it flows yearround without fail.

- Pha Bong Hot Springs - When hot springs emerge in a topic, Japan usually comes to mind, not Thailand, right? Well, not anymore. Just 12 kilometers south of Maehongson, these hot springs provide baths for whomever wants to rejuvenate their skin in the natural-mineral-laced waters. Food is up for sale as well. Located in a national park, the springs are perfectly safe.

Eastern Thailand

Khon Kaen: Also known as Isaan, this is another location where the Thai culture pulses and thrives. Not yet overly commercialized, Khon Kaen is the perfect destination for those who want to get in-touch and experience first-hand the local people, customs, culture, and traditions. This is where you will find farming, rural country life, and water buffaloes in rice paddies; though rural compared to Bangkok, Isaan is absolutely beautiful and charming in its own way...well worth the drive or flight there.

- Chonnabot Silk District - Heard of or seen those luxuriously tempting, hand-woven, individually crafted Thai silk textiles? Go straight to the source. 60 kilometers south of Khon Kaen, this area is renown for one thing and one thing only: silk. See the silk weaving process, the silk farms, the dyes, and the Thai Silk Exhibition Hall. A wonderful glimpse into the depths of tradition that silk holds for Thailand. Be warned though: visiters find it difficult (myself included) to depart without purchasing at least one of the gorgeous textiles.

- Wat Wutharam - Just south of the train station, this Buddhist temple has a lake in back, which is perfect for those who would like to get a hand in on the traditional Thai act of purchasing small bags of live fish at the local market and setting them free in the lake as a method of merit making.

- Khon Kaen National Museum - Officially opened in 1972, this museum displays history, art, and archaeological objects. View stunning displays of major archaeological findings in Thailand, ancient cities/communities, Dvaravati culture, objects from excavation sites, Lopburi culture, evolution of Thai art and culture.

Southern Thailand

Chumpon: Known as the gateway to the South, this city is 463 kilometers from Bangkok, and covers 6,009 square kilometers. Praise-worthy beaches and bay line its 222 kilometer coastline, while offshore islands provide opportunities for diving and fishing. Fruit plantations, dense forests, waterfalls and hidden caves are abundant as well, making this the perfect destination for visiters of all interests.

- Suan Nai Dum - The perfect place to get a taste (literally) of the savory and exotic fruits of this region: papaya, tangerine, dragon fruit, marrian plum, and so much more -- all of which are fresh and perfectly ripe for the picking and produced by the orchard of Nai Dum Garden. A coffee shop, restaurant, and souvenir shop are also to be found. Perhaps the greatest attraction (as those who have been there and the Nation will testify) is an unexpected one -- a toilet. Yes, the toilet won the Nation's annual toilet competition (2006), due to its unique placement in the midst of flowers, trees, and a miniature waterfall!

- Koh Tao - A small island off the coast of Chumpon far off in the sea. Although it is slightly remote, you won't want to pass up the chance to visit it, due to its beautiful beaches and coral reefs. Speed boats and regular boats are all available, ready to take anyone to the island. The ride to the island, itself, is well worth the trip.

- Hat Tawan Chai - The most beautiful beach in the district, its shores are parallel to a relaxing line of coconut palms (perfect for tying a hammock to and resting the evening away in).

- Tham Khao Plu Hot Springs - Three hots spas at the foot of a mountain slope, four caves, wildlife (monkeys, squirrels, birds), and private cabins complete with hot spring bathtubs and tree-shaded pool areas make this a favorite for tourists and Thais alike.

- Koh Chorakhe - A 30 minute boat ride will get visiters to this crocodile-shaped island consisting of two perfect beaches providing the ideal opportunity for diving and snorkeling. Fishing is also another activity offered by the island.

Khao Lak: A resort beach 80 kilometers north of Phuket International Airport, this location is more of a tropical paradise than anything else. The perfect relaxation spot for all ages.

- Laem Pakarang - A sandy beach piled with deer coral and groves of pine, creating the perfect atmosphere for camping and relaxation.

- Si Phang-nga National Park - This park was established by His Majesty the King on his 60th birthday, and is therefore, just as resplendant. Lush vegetation and large shady trees make it an ease to escape from the humid Thai weather, while 45 meter tall waterfall only adds to the coolness provided by the park.

- Ko Paet - A large island with a distinctive horse-shaped bay, and water with an average depth of 60 feet. Rock and coral formations, sandy beaches, and plenty of fishes make it perfect for diving, snorkeling, and sailing.

Krabi: A quaint and nice town right by the river mouth opening into the Andaman Sea, inhabited by 400,000 residents who work to make this a pleasant destination.

- Wat Tham Sua - A gorgeous hilltop temple accessible by a 30 to 40 minute climb. The view from the temple covers all the surrounding areas in all their resplendant beauty. Monkeys inhabit the hill, and are always looking to take things from visitors, so don't hold tempting objects or look them in the eye! Visiters are welcome to engage in a session of meditation within the temple.

- Susan Hoi (Shell Fossil Cemetary) - A huge slab of rock evolved over 35 million years, containing innumerable shells, is the center of attraction for this popular tourist destination. It's the most popular destination in Krabi and one of the top three in the world.

- Phi Phi Islands - Renowned as one of the most beautiful tropical islands in the world, this is one Thai destination that you can't afford to miss. Six miniature islands compose the well-famed Phi Phi Islands. See for yourself why it's so raved about.

Phuket: Ranked as one of Asia's top tourist destinations, Phuket is, in essence, spectacular scenary, stunning tropical sunsets, and sparkling blue waters.

- Old Phuket Town - Sino-Portuguese splendors and funky shops, along with mouth-watering restaurants and colonial and Chinese architecture.

- Wat Chalong - If you go to Phuket and plan on visiting any temples at all, then this is the temple to go to. Tiny glass pieces and numerous pagodas provide a surreal reflection that causes the entirety of the temple to mystically gleam in sunlight. If you go during a major holiday, the temple is also the site of wonderful family-oriented fairs.

- Bangla Road at Night - If you have an open mind, then perhaps this road is the perfect destination for you. Exotic shows, katoeys, cabarets, clubs, and pubs cater to every crowd and every individual. Warning: definitely not suitable for children or the conservative!

- Thalang National Museum - Ancient artifacts from Phuket's history (think the Battle of Thalang, Sea Gypsy culture, Burmese invaders, ancient Sukhothai Kingdom) are all up for display.

Hence, when armed with such an extensive list of wonderful places to visit when in Thailand, you can put that worry to rest and make your Thai vacation planning all that much less stressful. Below are some other tips to ease the stress:

* Wai - A common gesture showing respect and greeting; place both palms flat together and in front of the lower half of your face while slightly nodding your head. Do not wai to children, only those your age and older.

* Shoes and Heads - Shoes must be taken off in temples, as they are seen as filthy and will spoil the temples' purity. Heads (unless of a child) must not be touched, as the human head is seen as sacred; to touch an adult's head is a sign of disrespect.

* Displays of Affection - Thais do not show affection towards one another in public, even between married couples. So no holding hands, hugging, or kissing in public.

* Monks - Women may not touch them.

* Speaking and Smiling - Always smile and try to remain calm even when angry. Try your best to speak Thai to the best of your abilities (Thais are generally a friendly and helpful people who are willing to help if you show respect, courtesy, and an appreciation of the culture). Stay positive!

* Stay open minded!

Above all, enjoy it!